The government has taken great lengths to gathering information on bullying, and http://www.stopbullyingnow.hrsa.gov is a great resource.  Below is some information worth reading!

 

Characteristics of children who bully

Children who bully their peers regularly (i.e. those who admit to bullying more than occasionally) tend to:

• Be impulsive, hot-headed, dominant;

• Be easily frustrated;

• Lack empathy;

• Have difficulty following rules; and

• View violence in a positive way.

Boys who bully tend to be physically stronger than other children.

 

Family risk factors for bullying

Children who bully are more likely than their non-bullying peers to live in homes where there is:

• A lack of warmth and involvement on the part of parents;

• Overly-permissive parenting (including a lack of limits for children’s behavior);

• A lack of supervision by parents;

• Harsh, physical discipline; and

• A model for bullying behavior.

 

Peer risk factors for bullying

Children and youth who bully are more likely to have friends who bully and who have positive

attitudes toward violence.

Common myths about children who bully

“Children who bully are loners.”

• In fact, research indicates that children and youth who bully are not socially isolated.

• They report having an easier time making friends than children and youth who do not bully.

• Children and youth who bully usually have at least a small group of friends who support or encourage their bullying.

“Children who bully have low self-esteem.”

• In fact, most research indicates that children and youth who bully have average or above-average

self-esteem.

• Interventions that focus on building the self esteem of children who bully probably will be

ineffective in stopping bullying behavior.

Bullying and other violent

or antisocial behaviors

Research shows that bullying can be a sign of other serious antisocial or violent behavior. Children and youth who frequently bully their peers are more likely than others to

• Get into frequent fights,

• Be injured in a fight,

• Vandalize property,

• Steal property,

• Drink alcohol,

• Smoke,

• Be truant from school,

• Drop out of school, and

• Carry a weapon.

These and other materials are available online at: http://www.stopbullyingnow.hrsa.gov

 

Research also shows that

• Children who bully are more likely to report that they own guns for risky reasons, such as to gain

respect or frighten others.

• Boys who were identified as bullies in middle school were four times as likely as their non bullying peers to have more than one criminal conviction by age 24.

 

What do I do if my child is bullying others?

• Make it clear to your child that you take bullying seriously and that you will not tolerate

this behavior.

• Develop clear and consistent rules within your family for your children’s behavior. Praise and reinforce your children for following rules and use non-physical, non hostile consequences for

rule violations.

• Spend more time with your child and carefully supervise and monitor his or her activities. Find

out who your child’s friends are and how and where they spend free time.

• Build on your child’s talents by encouraging him or her to get involved in pro-social activities

(such as clubs, music lessons, nonviolent sports).

• Share your concerns with your child’s teacher, counselor, or principal. Work together to send

clear messages to your child that his or her bullying must stop.

• If you or your child needs additional help, talk with a school counselor or mental

health professional.

 

References

Byrne, B. J. (1994). Bullies and victims in school settings with reference to some Dublin schools. Irish Journal of Psychology, 15, 574-586. Cairnes, R. B., Cairnes, B. D., Neckerman, H. J., Gest, S. D., & Gariepy, J. L. (1988). Social networks and aggressive behavior: Peer support or peer rejection? Developmental Psychology, 24, 815-823.

Cunningham, P. B., Henggeler, S. W., Limber, S. P., Melton, G. B., and Nation, M. A. (2000). Patterns and correlates of gun ownership among non metropolitan and rural middle school students. Journal of Clinical Child Psychology, 29, 432-442.

Espelage, D., Bosworth, K., & Simon, T. (2000). Examining the social context of bullying behaviors in early adolescence. Journal of Counseling and Development, 78, 326-333.

Limber, S. P. (2002). Addressing youth bullying behaviors. Proceedings from the American Medical Association Educational Forum on Adolescent Health: Youth Bullying. Chicago, IL: American Medical Association.

Nansel, T. R., Overpeck, M. D., Haynie, D. L., Ruan, W. J., & Scheidt, P. C. (2003). Relationships between bullying and violence among US youth.Archives of Pediatric Adolescent Medicine, 157, 348-353.

Nansel, T. R., Overpeck, M., Pilla, R. S., Ruan, J., Simons-Morton, B., & Scheidt, P. (2001). Bullying Behaviors Among US Youth: Prevalence and Association With Psychosocial Adjustment. Journal of the American Medical Association, 285, 2094-2100.

Olweus, D. (1993). Bullying at school: What we know and what we can do. NY: Blackwell.

Olweus, D., Limber, S., & Mihalic, S. (1999). The Bullying Prevention Program: Blueprints for Violence Prevention. Boulder, CO: Center for the Study and Prevention of Violence.

Rigby, K. & Slee, P. T. (1993). Dimensions of interpersonal relations among Australian school children and their implications for psychological well-being. Journal of Social Psychology, 133, 33-42.

Slee, P. T., & Rigby, K. (1993). The relationship of Eysenck’s personality factors and self-esteem to bully-victim behavior in Australian schoolboys. Personality and Individual Differences, 14, 371-373.

 

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